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Authentic relationship tip: Seek first your ultimate relationship within.

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• Your Ultimate Relationship Awaits You

By Marie C. Barrett

Every human being on this planet has a fundamental desire for fulfillment. We each know at a deep, mostly unconscious level, that as we are, we do not fulfill our primary purpose; we yearn for more, to be more, without even knowing what it is we yearn for.

Unfortunately, most human beings search for fulfillment outside of themselves, believing that if they owned something, had some special person as their partner/lover, achieved some great goal like financial success, wealth, sporting achievement or academic or professional distinction, they might somehow assuage their desire to be more than they believe they are; they might begin to feel wise or powerful or worthwhile.

But external events or causes will never assuage their yearning to be more than they are. It simply does not work that way.

There is an urge, a deep seated yearning within the human psyche, that we call the Existential Imperative. This is indeed an imperative, an urge, because it leads us to discovering Who we are, Where we came from and Where we are going.

Let's back up a little here. Do you already know Who you are? Be prepared for a wonderful discovery, my friend, for you are  a spark of Divine Life, you are, in essence, pure Love, perfect Beauty, eternal and all-powerful Source Energy. This is your Essence, though not yet fully realized. In fact, you are quite possibly feeling anything but divine Love, divine in nature or divine in pretty well any aspect. Right? But it does not have to be this way.

Let's establish first, that everything that exists, all the universes, the cosmos, macro and micro, everything that has ever lived or existed or will ever live and exist is within this infinite Prime Mover. This divine Source Energy has been given many names across many cultures, names such as Brahman, Yahweh, Jehovah, God, Essence, Allah and too many others to include here, and you may have your own name for this Nameless One. Since you are, and must be, made of this very Essence, as It is the Source of all created, manifested reality, you must be of the same nature as this Source Energy. Nothing exists outside of Source Energy, only within It and therefore of It.

But in order to become human, we have accepted to forget that we are Source Essence. We have taken on the burden of layers of forgetfulness, as it were, that allow us to experience the highs and lows of returning Home, of rediscovering who we are, of clearing away each layer of forgetfulness, one by one, until we eventually experience ourselves as divine Source Energy again. This is our ultimate quest as humans, to rediscover our true nature and identity; to BE once more, All-That-Is.

Until we wake up to this Existential Imperative, until we seek life and goodness and love within our own heart, we will never feel satisfied or complete. In fact, we will never feel complete, ever, for this quest to Be more than we seem to be, will urge us to become more simple, more loving, more honest and transparent, always more. It is for the joy of this experience of returning Home, that we will continue the game of being incomplete.

This is how Divinity experiences Itself, through us. It pretends to be less that It is in order to experience the free-choice quest of returning home to the One. We say that life is a game. Now you know why. It is a game. A wonderful, complex and exciting game, and we are the star players.

The answers to all our questions lie within, never without. All our relationships, our seeking another that will help us feel loved and appreciated, are part of this eternal quest of realizing Who we are. You think you want love from others and you give love to another, but your ultimate motive in any relationship, is to find and feel happiness within your own self first. No-one else can do this for you; only you, in your own heart.

The more whole and happy you feel, the more valuable will your sharing of love be for the other. Never rely on anyone else to make you feel complete. You will meet with disappointment and sadness if you do so. You will never find true Happiness outside of yourself, only from within, in uncovering and experiencing your Essence.

Your ultimate happiness lies in discovering Who you are; in breaking through the illusions of forgetfulness that blind you to Who you are and returning Home to Source. Live the Love you are, be the Love you are, then, and only then, will you be fully enabled to share your Love with others.

 

 

 

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