Holistic Wealth Creation: Make Your Relationship Sizzle

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Make Your Intimate Relationship Sizzle

By Marie C. Barrett

Any relationship between two lovers must mesh with the full power and thrill of polarity attraction if it is to express deep love and passion. If you want to make your relationship vibrant and exciting, master the activation of polarity and you will create delightful sparks of love and connection between you and your lover, taking your relationship to new depths of love and trust. Let's explore the dance of this relationship polarity further.

If you are presently not in a relationship, however, you can apply what we speak of in this article to your interactions with others in family, friendship and business relationships, moderated to suit each situation. You can use the power of polarity attraction in any relationship; it's about balance, presence, attraction and authenticity.

Today let's consider how to make your relationship with your sexual partner both vibrant and delightful from this polarity perspective. Relationship polarity is about bringing two people with aligning energies together in a dance of mutual complimentarity. In a polarity, energies activate the question and energize the answer between two people. Just what does this mean?

Well, one example of polarity in a relationship is where, when one partner may be asking for security and acceptance, perhaps masked by anger or emotional stress, the other will recognize this underlying need and step into the role that enables him to become the answer to his partner's need of the moment.

He will therefore be for her the powerful lover who offers her strength and protection – to complement her need for security, and also give her the reassurance that he loves her, and will always love her, just as she is, to complement her need for acceptance. If he can recognize such needs of the moment in his partner and then offer her the answer to those needs, the relationship will glow vibrant with love.

In responding to her need in that moment, he helps her feel whole and self empowered, so that she fills with love from within, not from without. She in turn, when the occasion arises, will do the same for him in respect of his needs.

Being present to what he is really searching for, she can offer him the complementary answer, through showing him that the answer lies within him and that she is simply calling forth his own strength. Thus true love seeks empowerment and wholeness for the other.

In this new kind of relationship you must become fully present in the moment and focus on your partner with intuitive attention, loving your beloved unconditionally. Then when accusations, arguments or fault-finding come up, as they will inevitably from time to time; you will be able to see through the harsh words or negative behavior of the moment, to the underlying hurt and need that is causing the emotional charge. Then you will be giving your partner the gift of presence, strength and empathy.

You will be able to give this gift to your partner because you can look deeply through your partner's eyes into her soul with appreciation and understanding. You will cut through the emotional baggage to a vision of the pure soul inside, perhaps a soul that is hurting and needing your love more than ever, and then you will bring to the relationship the greatest gift of all: unconditional love: "Bring it on baby, I will love you, no matter what you say or do".

If you want to turn your lover on, give them the love and support they're begging for in any situation; see the underlying need of their soul and meet that need with strong and unshakeable love.

This complimentary answering to the other's needs, will take your love to a vibrant new level of delight and joy. Meeting each other's needs is fundamental in a real and lasting love relationship. Be present to your partner no matter what; loving the pure soul you see under the external expression, especially when your partner is in emotional pain.

Expressing the complementary sexuality and strength of your gender to your partner, will bring extraordinary rewards to both of you. Trust and complimentarity, love and support, go hand in hand to bring you the delight of a beautiful, powerful and sizzling relationship.

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