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Authentic relationships tip: Yes, you can attract your soul mate.

Authentic Relationships

Romance
• Can I Attract My Soul Mate?

By Marie C. Barrett

We have all heard it bandied around that people want to find their soul mate and live happily ever after. But is there any truth to this dream?

Can you really attract and live in happiness with your soul mate?

Yes, you can, if you understand the mechanics of how this actually works.

Nothing happens by chance in your life. Nothing. You have attracted and created everything you presently have in your life, including your lover, partner, home, worldly goods, career, income, and beyond all, your inner relationship with yourself.

I can already hear you shifting in your chair with a certain degree of bristling uneasiness. Do you find it a little difficult to accept that you are the cause and reason for all you are experiencing in  your life?

I know this is a confronting idea, but it can be the most enervating and empowering realization when you actually get it.

It begins with who you believe you are.

Do you know who you are?

Who you really are?

Do you know why you are here, alive right now?

Do you know why your life has not quite worked out the way you would have liked?

Do you know how to change it?

And finally, how can you attract your true soul mate?

The answers will vary with everyone, obviously, but the process of reaching your answers is the same. It comes down to your personal authenticity. When you discover yourself from the inside, all the outside world fits in with your understanding of yourself, with your personal identity, with your concept of your personal worthiness and beauty. Who you believe you are affects how you perceive and experience the world. You attract the experiences that align with your beliefs about who you are.

We have spoken about various aspects of the Law of Attraction elsewhere and will continue to explore more about how this universal law works in the future, but for the present let’s focus on how to attract a soul mate, and this may mean taking your present relationship to a new and exquisite level of happiness.

Firstly, do not expect anything from anyone that you are not willing to offer to them, pressed down and multiplied by two.

Say again? Quite simply, who you are and how you express yourself, with love, with honor, with authenticity and even with humor, will put out that kind of energy that will resonate and speak to others on the same wavelength.

If you are generous, loving, emotionally self supportive, that is, not emotionally dependent on anyone else, non reliant but willing to give and share, you will become a powerful magnet for your soul mate.

When you are clear in your heart and mind about the kind of person you want to be with, even down to their physical appearance as well as their personality characteristics, your thoughts are streaming out to the universe to be formed  into your experience.

If your desire for love with another is deep, non dependent, but filled with love, you will attract your heart’s desire. This is so by the powerful Law of Attraction that we have spoken so much about.

By saying emotionally non-dependent, I mean that you do not expect anyone else to make you feel whole, or significant or worthwhile. That immediately puts a burden on your soul mate and on anyone with whom you interact for that matter.

Never do that to another person. Romance will die and the undue pressure will destroy your relationship. Be the powerful and beautiful person you really are inside. That is your key to happiness, romance and soul mate love. Happiness is never outside of you. Happiness is an inner experience. Your soul mate relationship will add to your inner beauty and joy because it will evoke more love within you. And it is love that is the greatest attractor factor of all.

Nothing compares with love. The love and respect you have for yourself will enrich everyone you touch in your life. Love shared with your soul mate will enrich the world.

Yes, you can attract your soul mate. Work on your own inner self first, build your self-esteem until you can love what you see. Only then can you expect that your soul mate, above all the blur and noise of life, will hear your love calling and respond.

Expect it to be so, believe it to be so and it will be so.

 

 

 

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